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Ask, Seek, Knock
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Ask, Seek, Knock

October 17, 2021

“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened.”. 

Matthew 7:7-8

Had I been a boy, my name would have been Matthew. My Mother shared this with me many years ago. I have always been partial to the name, feeling like it somehow subconsciously represented the male version of myself I would never know.

Ironic how one of my favorite Biblical verses is found in the book of Matthew. Coincidence? Or kismet-inspired drawing to a man in which I had a fifty percent chance of sharing a namesake? Either way, he was a pretty wise and willing follower of Jesus who left some invaluable life advice, the likes of which the world has never since known. 

I used to think this verse depicted God in an all-powerful, golden hue, genie/Santa Claus-esque role, doling out presents here and there as He saw fit. A puppy for you! Yes! That house you have always wanted? Sure! The job you applied for has been granted. The lottery? Ok! A baby? As you wish…

Not so. Life has taught me many lessons. One of which is we do not always get what we want, what we think we need, and what we subsequently pray for. I used to think I got the short end of life’s inevitable stick of fairness. That was when I lived a life comparing my own to others. Of course, no one ever wins in the infamous game of comparison. 

ask and you shall receive

Upon entering my thirties, life took me on a roller coaster of surprise, grief, anxiety, and devastation as well as immeasurable joy, answered prayers, a love I had never known, and higher highs than John Denver sang about in one of his most genius lyrical masterpieces ever, Rocky Mountain High (inspired by the majestic Rocky Mountains in Colorado).

What I realized though, is this: when God’s inspired Word encourages us to ask, seek and knock, it is not necessarily for material things, relationships, situations, possessions, or even life experiences. 

The ultimate meaning behind these simple yet poignant words depicts a need for something far greater.

Wisdom, discernment, inspiration, the ability to persist, the desire to learn from mistakes, the need to seek wise counsel when life goes rogue, the strength to get up after a hard, prideful, and self-injuring fall.

The will to keep going, try again, and maybe even use what you have learned to assist others. I believe that is what Jesus meant in the book of Matthew when he called his followers and friends to ask, seek, and knock. 

I still pray for what I want. Obviously. I am human, after all. Yet, in the back of my mind, there is a still small voice that whispers, This may not be best for you, child. I humbly, at times, disappointedly, resign myself to an answer. Whether it be yes, no, wait, or, my personal favorite…something way better is on the horizon. 

There is no such thing as unanswered prayer. I believe God faithfully hears each and every prayer from the lips of his beloved children. He subsequently answers based on His all-knowing wisdom, not on human un-knowing wisdom. I am so thankful for this. 

My heavenly Father sees the big picture while I only see a small part. He sees the forest while I see the smallest sprig of a sapling just starting her long enduring journey in the forest of life. 

God’s answer may not always be exactly what I pray for. However, time and time again, He has proven His answers are always best. I will always find solace in knowing the answers meant for me; to better, grow, encourage, and fulfill me, lie in wait. 

All I have to do is simply, humbly and reverently ask.

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Manndi Wilkins

Manndi Maphies DeBoef works at the UMKC School of Pharmacy and as a freelance writer in her spare time. Her greatest passion is being a boy mom to her two rambunctious, creative, endearing sons, William, age 11 and Waylan, nearly 9. Her sons never fail to provide daily entertainment, which inspires many of her writings. She also loves to write about everything from being a single mom and dating after divorce to finding love later in life, the devastation of miscarriage, the loss of a loved one and starting over. Her pieces are lovingly filled with inspiration, encouragement and always a touch of humor. “Live a life others wish to read about.”

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Every single person you meet was created by, and l Every single person you meet was created by, and loved by God. 

Even the ones who have hurt you. 

Next time you’re tempted to act out in anger, or envy, or hurt.. stop for a moment and think.. how would Jesus behave in this situation? 

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I think we’ve all gone through times in our life when failure has threatened to keep us down. When getting back up after yet another fall feels seemingly impossible.

And I hate to break it to you, but we will all face failure at some point in our lives. Sometimes repeatedly. But the really amazing thing about failure is that it give us options:

We can either let failure destroy our confidence and our faith and keep us from living up to our full potential.

Or we call view failure as another chance.

Embracing failure is a concept that may be difficult to adopt at first, but when we can view failure as a learning opportunity and quickly get back up on our feet, we win. It’s also a chance to turn to God and say hey.. here’s my weakness. And it’s only through our weaknesses that we can turn to God and find His strength.

So.. are you going to change the way you view failure? Or are you going to let it hold you back?

@biancaolthoff 

I'll link a giveaway for this book in stories so go check it out there!

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"This verse isn’t promising that bad things won’t happen. It simply reminds us nothing can touch us when we live in Christ Jesus. We might experience loss and hardship, but our ultimate destination is heavenly perfection. 

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Take a deep breath and know that no matter what, you are loved and you will be ok.

God is Big Enough to hold our biggest hurts and make them beautiful." 

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