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To the Girl Who Feels Forgotten and Unwanted – You are Perfectly Loved

You are loved. You are wanted. You are beautiful. You are not a burden. You are not a mistake.

Let’s be real. How many of us believe every single one of those statements?

I know I struggle too.

Every single day, the devil uses lies through our culture and social media that we are not loved, wanted, or beautiful.

He tries to convince us that we are a burden and a mistake, that we’re unworthy and have no purpose.

He tries to attack every single insecurity of ours, whether it be our appearance, our singleness, our anxiety, our loneliness, or our sin.

The devil is not creative one bit, but so many of us feel alone in this battle, despite the fact that nearly all of us are struggling with the same exact thing.

Friend, you are not alone.

When we step out into the light, vulnerable and raw, admitting that we question our worth and our value, we can shut down the devil’s schemes.

We can overcome his lies with the truth that Christ has spoken over us. We can be united because of the work and healing that our Father has inspired within us.

You are not alone, but I don’t want you to stay in this place of questioning your worth.

The God of the universe, the one who created the heavens and the earth and every beautiful thing on this planet, declares that you are His most favorite masterpiece; a work of art.


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The God of the universe, the one who created the heavens and the earth and every beautiful thing on this planet, declares that you are His most favorite masterpiece; a work of art.

He declares that you are made with a unique purpose, for this very point in eternity.

He declares that you are worthy and chosen, so much so that He went as far as the cross to display His unending love for you.

You are loved, you are wanted, you have a purpose, and you are not a burden.

Father, I pray over the girl who is reading this right now. I pray that You would make her aware of Your presence in her life and cover her with Your peace. Teach her, Father, and help her understand how truly and incredibly loved she is by You. Bless this beautiful girl and move the mountains in her life in a way only You can. Thank you for whoever is on the other side of the screen, and for the unique purpose they are here for. We love You and we praise You, Amen.

If you are wrestling with this idea of identity, worth, and value, a song I recently heard struck a chord so deeply in my heart. It’s called “Perfectly Loved” by Rachel Lampa, and it truly cuts to the core of every lie we fall into believing.

It brought me to tears the first time I heard it because the truth and grace every single lyric is filled with is something we all need to be reminded of.

Beautiful girl, please never forget that God has declared you so very loved and so very wanted. You have a purpose on this earth and I am so glad you are here.


Perfectly Loved Lyrics by Rachel Lampa

“Who said that you weren’t beautiful
And that you didn’t belong in your own skin?
Who said that you were all alone
And that you’re never gonna find love again?

So many little words, so many little lies
That have followed you all of your life
Looking for the truth, look into your eyes
And you’ll see it’s been there the whole time

Ooh, even when you were running
Even when you were hiding
Never been a moment that you were not perfectly loved
When you barely believed it
When your eyes couldn’t see it
Every single moment, you’ve always been perfectly loved
Ooh, perfectly loved
You’ve always been perfectly

In the hands of the Infinite
As the wounds of the world became His
See the kindness Heaven has for you
And how He’s always been drawing you in

So many open doors (so many open doors), so many miracles (so many)
That have followed you all of your life
Looking for the truth (looking for the truth), look into your eyes (oh)
And you’ll see its been there the whole time

Ooh, even when you were running
Even when you were hiding
Never been a moment that you were not perfectly loved
When you barely believed it
When your eyes couldn’t see it
Every single moment you’ve always been perfectly loved
Ooh, perfectly loved
Ooh

You’re not a problem
You’re not a mistake
Don’t need fixing or solving
In the arms of His grace

You’re perfectly human
Made from the dust
You’ve got a heart, broken and scarred, yet perfectly loved

Oh, even when you were running
Even when you were hiding
Never been a moment that you were not perfectly loved
When you barely believed it (when you barely believed it)
When your eyes couldn’t see it
Every single moment you’ve always been perfectly loved
Perfectly loved
You’ve always been perfectly loved

Ooh
Perfectly loved
You have always been perfectly loved”

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